Spur of the Moment

I will celebrate my anniversary this May. Fifteen years! It has not been hard either. You know how people say "Marriage is a lot of hard work" and I believe it is for some, but my hubby and I just naturally get along and it has been easy.

Here's my gripe about marriage and kids. The lack of spontaneity. I hate having to wait until 10pm or so to "get it on," "do the bone dance," "show my humps." Let me tell you, by 10pm and a long day with kids and work this is how sexy I usually sound - ZZZzzzzzzzzz.

Nooners were made for me. I am all about having the lights on and indulging in a little Afternoon Delight. When we were first married the hubby had a job that enabled him to leave for lunch AND we lived closer to the office so when he got the phone call, he was ready and able to please. He's still ready and able but unfortunately covered up in meetings and presentations and its a 30 minute commute.

We are all about "sneaking around" and believe me our kids used to think we were the most well-rested couple in America cuz we were always announcing "We are taking a nap - be quiet!" and sometimes we did sleep but I can see how for some couples this could be a problem. Luckily, we have ALWAYS had to sneak around. My hubby now has adopted my oldest. So, we have always had kids and always had to sneak around - you know, giving each other the look....letting a little guy know that he can play video games while mommy and daddy take a "shower" (no, not that kind of shower - clean up your dirty mind!).

It just seems like lately we've been busy on the weekends and not able to catch up on our "sleep." Busy with scouting, track meets, working on our house plans and lot....life gets in the way of romance. Luckily, this weekend while I was in the shower on Saturday after the hubby and I went for a run, he stepped in and "washed my back." We still got it.